CHANGES SOCIETY NEEDS!

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• If not accepting , then atleast respecting others choices. (You like party that's great , I like spending time with myself , and we both are great individuals , you like cricket , I like badminton , both are great games , you like dancing , I like singing...both are amazing form of art ).. likewise..

• Stop being unofficial judges. (Oh she is not vocal then she must be doing something very wrong..oh he is awake at 12 am then he must be wasting time with someone else...she doesn't like anybody to invade her private space and he is a night owl respectively ,..)

• STOP giving character certificates to woman(that happens often) or to a man , (oh you're A+ , you're A , sorry you got B , Girl/Boy you have failed this test).

• START visualising men in kitchen also , because why should girls have all the fun? Afterall, cooking and cleaning are the basic life survival skills.

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• Stop trying to make girls well trained , they're not animals , they're human with flaws.

• Start being generous to animals. 

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•Stop being nosy...Kaha jaa raha , acha instagram pe hai , Facebook pe hai , whatsapp Number dena ,..kyun bhai? 

• Stop giving respect to others as per their status or age instead of their ""behaviour. '""""

• Stop gossiping and enjoying it. "Oh have you heard what happened in guptaji's house" .. gossipers does the same with everyone..mere muh pe mere , tere muh pe tere. 

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• Stop giving up your own set of morals in wrong peer pressure. Mumma , my friend smokes , drink and party all night , so I also want to , I don't like , but I want to...A BIG NOOOO..

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• Stop showing off expensive gadgets , technology , clothes , falana dhimkana because the most valued brand is only humanity for almighty.

• Stop being secretive about love affair. It's not a sin , it's a sign of you being human. So , be vocal , nothing to hide. Chill !!

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• STOP the hush hush about sex choices. It's a natural phenomena. Infact , Sex education should be taught from childhood days itself (not like those schools and colleges where boys and girls are taught about these , seperately and secretively , as if they're on a secret mission) be clear and open so that when they grow up into adult , they would lead a balanced and gentle life , without any wrong notion about other genders as well as their own body.

•Stop objectifying other genders.

• Stop questioning others sexuality.

• Be more open minded and at the same time never crossing the line what your conscience doesn't allow. Hunch feeling never goes wrong.

• Stop asking insensitive questions , arrey bhai teri shaadi kab hogi , bache kab hoge , naukri kab lagegi ,..itna kala kaise ho gaya , itne kam marks kaise aaye ,... Nobody has future time machine naa or power to change past!!! So , why to hurt anybody ,or make them uncomfortable or simply why you've this much chull? Just Chillax , (Chill + Relax)

• Stop putting restrictions on menstruating girls..beta hide your pad , don't touch pickle , don't go in temple.... any scientific reason? No.. parampara , pratishtha , anushashan , are the sole reasons.!!

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• Stop having bad notions about rishtedar (must have heard that song , hahaha) , aap bhi to kisi ke rishtedar hi ho!! Hehe..

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• Stop expecting. Takers eat good, givers sleep good. 

• Stop hating someone because of their religion..hindu muslim sikh iisai , all are insan. As said in PK , thappa laga ho to batao?? Haha..

• Stop building up false ego.. there's a difference between self awareness and self obsession.

• Stop giving value to materialistic things , start giving value to intention and emotions.

• Stop spreading and accepting rumours. A rumour is spread by the hater , accepted by fool , and rejected by the wise.

• Start thinking not just about oneself but also for a society as a whole. First salary se I will gift something to my parents and also will feed needy strangers and strays..  restaurant ka ek din ka expenditure cut kar ke , kisi gareeb ko de deta hun.. kya ho jayega , ek din manage to kar hi sakta hun.. likewise....

• Stop comparing ...Sharmaji ka beta genius hai to tu kyun nahi...uuse 90 percent aaye tujhe itne kam kyun...jab surname , name match nahi ho rahi to quality kaise hogi? Common sense!

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• Stop being bully , rude and insensitive to others.

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•Stop humiliating or disrespecting your juniors. just because you are elder that's not a free ticket that you can do anything. Nah!! Not acceptable!!

•Stop going to places where you're not valued or celebrated. Doesn't matter if it's your blood relation or heart relation.  Always chose Quality over quantity.

•the list is endless....... literally....

This society needs a revolutionary change , a modern change with a covering of good values , that comprises ; love , care , compassion , humanity , sensitiveness.

Oh hello Astha , Wake Up!! You're dreaming!!

Umm...ugghhhh..yes you're right it's only a dream. Well ,I can't change "anybody" and I don't even want to but I am content that I follow my own set of morals without poking nose into other's business and without judging their choices , and not tolerating any shit from anyone. Bachpan se aisi hi hun..God gifted !! An open book.. that will take you a good amount of time to understand..

Policy of my life : "Live and let live" arthath , JEEYO AUR JEENO DO..

I WANT TO BE THE CHANGE THAT I WISH TO SEE IN THIS WORLD.

PS Todays' youths are more practical , sensitive towards others feelings , generous and nicer beings , I believe.