It happens only once!

 "Hum ek baar jeete hai, ek baar marte hai, shaadi bhi ek baar hoti hai aur pyar ek baar hi hota hai."

(We live once, we die once, we get married once and love also happens only once)

Who else remember this iconic dialogue from the movie "kuch kuch hota hain ?"

Well , whether we admit or not but deep down we all know that true love happens only once. And as I say , "pehli cheez humesha yaad Rehti hain , firsts are always special" so it's quite impossible to erase its memories from the heart. It resides. Resides till the last breath. 

But the generation of 21st century , sadly , majority of them have failed relationships. Just keep on changing their partners. You know what's the main reason/s? Because of their shallow ego / loneliness / boredom / objectifying other gender or more precisely , they just love the idea of being in love (kinda mission to accomplish), doesn't matter with whomever.

From here , the stress arise which is realised eventually. The mind and heart keeps on creating memories and when memories become so many with different people then it becomes way too difficult to handle , perplexing which results in emotional outburst , depression , to name a few. It directly or indirectly hampers you mentally , physically and spiritually.

So , if you love someone truly then don't let them go because of the silly misunderstandings , shallow egos. Ofcourse , both sides needs to understand and adjust to some extent. Stay loyal. Just try to save the lovely bond. 

P.S. You're blessed if your "first is your last." :) 

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